It just occured to me...to have these thoughts written down.
In life,there is a need to treasure relationships we have with one another.Be it with family,friends, peers,..anyone.You can be nice to anyone you meet.Oh,but please don't be a hypocrite. And of course,I don't mean that you need to live all your life praising people,etc.
We not only can hurt someone feelings with our words but it can also be quite obvious in our actions. As far as possible,one should avoid hurting people's feelings.It's not easy though but we need to put in extra effort to help prevent conflict or any other unwanted situations.And believe me,it is not so easy for one to seek the forgiveness too.I'm sure that you'd agree with me on that statement.Well,have you ever find it difficult to forgive someone although he/she has sincerely apologise?Do you remember those times when you were furious,sad and hurt all at the same time over someone's attitude towards you??You knew the answer yourself!
And yes,it is a positive way of thinking to forgive and forget but not every single soul in this world find it easy to deal with it in such manner. Because I believe that the person who was hurt would always remember about it throughout his lifetime.Right.
If you're happy and comfortable with someone,do let he/she knows.A way to appreciate people.But if it's otherwise,the best way is to open up,be frank and tell that someone politely.Be nice to others if you want to be treated in the same manner too.It's all in the matter of living with respect,sincerity and appreciating those people that you come across in life.
I have to admit it here,that there are times when I wasn't careful with my choice of words and actions towards others.I may realise my mistake apologise to the other party but there are times where I don't realise the mistakes that I've made at all.
To anyone who happened to stumble upon this mundane blog of mine,having to read this entry and who knows me personally,I would just like to apologise should I offend you in any way.We humans are no perfect.